Is it ok for a husband or wife to abort a child?

Did Kirk really think that pulling out is a source of abortion... I can not believe he just said that. As a man or a husband he should have first known that he can still get his wife pregnant without a condom... Duh! He is really sitting there laughing as if it is funny with his pregnant wife watching other girls kiss on her husband. Is Rasheeda dumb for taking him back? 

As a friend to Kirk, is Benzino responsible for Kirk actions? I strongly believe that every person should be held accountable for any and everything.